Even though we have a relationship, just touching each other like that doesn't count as adultery, right?

“We're both married but you're the one flirting with SEX so it's not my fault at all. Only you are the one having an affair. I'm not an adulterer.” 4 hours ago… When drinking with my beautiful superior, I got my dick touched with a smile. “Since we haven't had sex yet, we are not molesters”, after continuously touching my penis for 240 minutes, I invited and had sex with her. I had my life and my boy ruined by a dangerous woman who didn't know she was having an affair.